Set it up
Top 10 setups for a child who wants an AI to answer their questions
Your child keeps asking why the sky is blue, how volcanoes work and whether sharks sleep, and someone said "just ask the AI." This list runs from the simplest setup (your phone, your lap, together) to a kid account, a smart speaker, a kid-only chatbot and a robot. Good setups match your child's age to the product's terms, keep a grown-up close for younger kids, and turn off what you don't need. Watch for age rules (most big chatbots are 13+, Claude is 18+), always-on microphones, subscriptions, and the pull to treat a chatbot like a friend.
We ranked setups by how well they fit a curious child under 13, how much a parent can see and steer, and how easy they are to set up. Age rules and prices were checked on official help pages in Oct 2026 and they change, so check the current terms. Checked 2026-10-24. Nobody paid to be here and nothing is an affiliate link.
Ask together on a parent's phone or laptop
Any major chatbot on your own account · Free · Ages 3-12 with a parent
The simplest and safest start. Your child asks out loud, you type or speak it into your own chatbot, and you read the answer together. You catch mistakes, skip anything odd, and model how to check facts.
- Pick one chatbot you already use
- Start a temporary or incognito-style chat if it offers one
- Let your child ask in their own words
- Read the answer aloud and ask "how could we check that?"
- Look up one fact together in a book or a trusted site
Watch for: Your account stores the chats. Turn off history or training if you don't want your child's questions saved.
A shared kitchen or living-room laptop
Your family computer plus Microsoft Family Safety, Family Link or Screen Time · Free controls · Ages 7-12
One computer in a common room, signed in to a child account with filters on. Kids can ask questions while you are nearby, and the screen faces the room. It is the setup most digital-safety groups recommend first.
- Put the computer where adults pass by
- Make a child account and add it to your family group
- Turn on web and search filters
- Bookmark one chatbot your child is allowed to use
- Agree on rules: no names, school or address in chats
Watch for: Signed-out browsers and guest modes skip your filters. Lock them down.
Gemini on a supervised Google account (under 13)
Google · Free · Ages Under 13 with a parent's Family Link
Google lets parents switch Gemini on for under-13 supervised accounts in Family Link. Kids get extra filters, Guided Learning for hints instead of answers, and Google tells kids it is a tool, not a person to confide in.
- Set up Family Link and a supervised Google account
- In Family Link go to Controls, then Gemini, then Gemini Apps
- Turn it on and wait a few hours for it to apply
- Sit with your child for the first few chats
- Show them how to mark a bad answer
Watch for: Not available for supervised accounts in the UK, EEA or Switzerland. Common Sense rated Gemini for kids high risk in Sept 2025.
A smart speaker in kids mode
Amazon (Alexa) or Google (Nest) · Amazon Kids is free; Kids+ from $7.99/mo for Prime members (Oct 2026) · Ages 3-10
Pre-readers can just ask out loud. Amazon Kids on Alexa and Google's supervised voice setup filter answers, block voice shopping and explicit music, and let you set bedtimes. Google opened Gemini for Home to supervised kids in March 2026.
- Put the speaker in a shared room, not a bedroom
- Turn on Amazon Kids or the Google supervised setup
- Create a voice ID or Voice Match for your child
- Turn off voice purchasing
- Set downtime for nights
Watch for: An always-listening microphone in your home. Amazon ended the local-only voice option in March 2025, so recordings go to the cloud.
A kid-only chatbot with a parent view
Pinwheel (PinwheelAsk, formerly PinwheelGPT) · Free for 20 chats/month; $5.99/mo or $49.99/yr (Oct 2026) · Ages 7-12
Built for kids from the start. Answers are filtered, there are no images, videos or links, and parents can read what their child asked from an app or browser. A good middle step between asking together and a teen account.
- Install the kid app on your child's device
- Install the parent app on yours and link them
- Read the first week of chats together
- Talk about which answers to double-check
Watch for: Simple, copy-ready answers make homework copying easy. Talk about that up front.
An AI tutor that asks questions back
Khan Academy (Khanmigo) · $4/mo or $44/yr for parents (Oct 2026) · Ages Grade school to high school
Khanmigo is built to guide instead of hand over answers, which suits the "why" kid who also has homework. Parents add children from their own account, can review past chats, and get moderation alerts.
- Buy the parent plan
- Add each child from your parent account
- Pick a subject your child is curious about
- Check the chat history after the first week
Watch for: It is a tutor first. Off-topic chatting is limited, which is the point.
An iPad or iPhone with Apple Intelligence limits
Apple · Free controls · Ages 6-12
Screen Time lets you allow or block Apple Intelligence features and the ChatGPT extension in Siri. That means your child can use Siri for simple questions while you decide whether a third-party chatbot is in the loop.
- Set up Family Sharing and a child Apple Account
- Open Screen Time, then Content & Privacy Restrictions
- Go to Intelligence & Siri
- Set the ChatGPT extension to Don't Allow
- Decide which other features to allow
Watch for: Siri's ChatGPT extension sends questions to OpenAI when on. Keep it off for young kids.
A robot friend with a parent app
Miko (Miko Mini, Miko 3) · Ages 5-10
Kids talk to a small robot that answers questions, plays games and tells stories, with a parent app for time limits and a one-tap camera and mic off switch. Fun for kids who like a character more than a screen.
- Connect the robot to home Wi-Fi
- Pair it in the Miko parent app
- Set a parent passcode and time limits
- Turn the camera off if you don't need it
Watch for: Needs Wi-Fi and a paid Miko Max plan for much of the content. Senators questioned Miko's data security in Feb 2026.
A linked teen ChatGPT account (13+)
OpenAI · Free; paid plans optional · Ages 13-17 with parental consent
For older kids. A parent links accounts, can reduce sensitive content, turn off memory, model training, voice and images, and set quiet hours. Since Aug 2026, under-18 users get the ChatGPT for Teens experience by default.
- Make your own account first and try it
- Your teen makes their own account
- Go to Settings, Parental controls, Add family member
- Your teen accepts the invite
- Set quiet hours and turn off what you don't need
Watch for: Common Sense Media rated ChatGPT for Teens "Unacceptable Risk" in Oct 2026. You can't read chats, and alerts were unreliable in testing.
A local AI on a parent's computer (for tinkerers)
Ollama, Jan, GPT4All and others · Free software · Ages 10+ with a parent
If you are technical, you can run an open model on your own computer so nothing leaves the house. It is a great way to show older kids how AI works. It is last on this list for a reason.
- Install a local AI app on a parent's computer
- Download a small open model
- Write a short system prompt with house rules
- Test it with tricky questions before your child does
- Use it together, not alone
Watch for: Local models have no safety filter by default. Never leave a young child alone with one.
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