🛡️ Parental controls and family safety · 💬 Social apps and messaging
Messenger Kids
By Meta. Visit Messenger Kids
Desk research from the maker's own pages. Not yet tried by us. Checked 2026-10-24.
A video calling and messaging app for children, set up and run from a parent's Facebook account. The child sends messages, photos and videos, makes video calls, and plays with stickers, filters and games. Through the Parent Dashboard a parent approves contacts (or lets the child send and accept friend requests), sees who the child chats with and what they send and receive, sets sleep-mode hours, and can download the child's data. There are no ads or in-app purchases, and no Facebook account is created for the child.
Our take: A reasonable first messenger for under-13s whose family already uses Facebook; skip if you don't want Meta holding your child's messages.
| Ages it suits | under 13 (App Store rating 4+) |
|---|---|
| What its terms say about age | The terms set no minimum age. A Messenger Kids account must be created and managed by a parent or guardian's Facebook account, and that adult accepts the terms for the child. (terms) |
| Price | Free. Free, with no ads and no in-app purchases (Oct 2026). |
| Works on | iPhone and iPad, Android |
| Account | A parent's account |
| Ads | None |
| In-app purchases | None |
| The AI in it | No AI features for kids are described; Meta says it uses automated systems and machine learning to detect problems. |
What's good
- Parent approves every contact by default
- Parent can see conversations
- No ads or purchases
- Sleep-mode schedule
Watch for
- Parent needs a Facebook account
- Meta keeps message content
- Past FTC allegation over group-chat flaw
- Older kids tend to outgrow it
Data and privacy
Meta collects the child's name, photo, birthday, messages, photos and videos, contacts, usage and device identifiers. It says it does not sell the child's personal information, but it may share data with other Meta companies. Read the privacy policy.
Does it work?
In May 2023 the FTC alleged that from late 2017 to mid-2019 a flaw let some children join group chats and group video calls with contacts their parents had not approved, contrary to Meta's promises; this was an allegation in an order to show cause, not a final finding.
In the Big Index
- The maker in the who's who: Meta
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Where these facts come from
- https://messengerkids.com/
- https://www.facebook.com/legal/messengerkids/terms/?version=latest
- https://www.facebook.com/legal/messengerkids/privacypolicy/?version=latest
- https://www.facebook.com/help/messenger-app/213724335832452
- https://apps.apple.com/us/app/messenger-kids/id1285713171
- https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/press-releases/2023/05/ftc-proposes-blanket-prohibition-preventing-facebook-monetizing-youth-data
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